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Sunday, December 5, 2010

Have you arranged? Internet?

A short time ago, almost all of the marriages arranged by a method called start. Functioning form of arranged marriages as follows: Man's family, seeking a suitable partner for their children and their children determines the candidate equal candidates evlendirirlerdi determined. Prior to marriage to marry people with very limited communications.

In the following time and the woman's job to take an active part in the life of a modern arranged depending on the call appeared in a new way. According to this method, the co-candidates, in the same class at the university, the fact that the same department or a relative, a friend of a friend, or through the marriage with the aim of the negotiations provided tanışıyorlar. If the positive neticelenirse interviews, going to work until marriage.

Internet style marriages in our country about how much work there. What is the success rate? We know how much the Internet? Banner and a virtual real world? These issues need to investigate serious matters to me. Google uncle after the second country in Africa by the very adult opinions on this issue to me is that we say that you're wrong.

Internet today is used for many purposes. Information, and sometimes spend time, sometimes it can be used to communicate. The possibilities of communication using the Internet, or get to know each other, to recognize young people working, living or lived in virtually zannetmekte romantic relationships, romantic relationships until marriage, in some cases gitmerkte ...

We are, even in real life, sometimes even face to face against the side of the recognition of our relationships and misunderstandings, we live in is wrong. Indicating that married couples knew each other for years, sometimes even when they actually admit their wives tanıyamamış. In real life, real relationships, even when not possible to know fully the other side, we ask for God's sake, in a virtual environment, and error and deception, lies, a situation that is very easy to really get to know each other in person and how much is possible to build a serious relationship?

I hear being discussed on the Internet, such as the mannequin everyone .. No -1.60 tall, 75-80 pounds does not say. Even if the physical properties of the Parties that are always different and better defined, but the marriages are not obvious at first glance, the physical property is more important to know that I'm full of personality lies in the properties. In addition, the structure of temperament, personality, family, income, tells a lie about a lot more easily.

As a result arkadaşlıklarda established on the internet, there are possibilities of a serious threat to marriages. Published in the media on this issue much more frequently in the news from me I'm sure rastladığınızdan.

As a result, why marry someone when you know in real life virtual edesiniz choose one? If you are in a virtual relationship eşiğindeyseniz or irreversibly in a way, but please;

* Buluşmayın parents unaware of anyone.

* In the virtual environment, friendship, always move in real life.

* Friend's where media, always allow your friends and family.

* In the same way, buddy, you too, Introduce your family and friends.

* Never discussing monetary relations do not enter the virtual environment.

* Before serious decisions such as marriage, want to get your face until you know people talk in real life, halal frames.

A FEW OF MARRIAGE HADITH would like to share.

The Prophet informs us that:

"The woman evlenilir for four things: Made, lineage, beauty, and for religious. So, the possible soil their hands, you get dindarını!" Abu Hurayra by Bukhari Radiyallahu Anh.

"The world is a commodity. His best meta is a Salina woman" Amr Ibn Muslim Radiyallahu Anh.

"See the equivalent to those of your women to marry and marry hayırlısı! Evlendirin ones equivalent to each other," Aisha, Ibn Majah Radiyallahu anha.

"Married, will have completed half of faith, while about half of the remaining korksun Allah!"

Enes Radiyallahu Anh Tabarani

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